His Oat-Sowing Days Are Over According to John Malloy, author of Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others , which details the results of a survey of 2,500 men, the singles scene no longer appeals to a man who is ready to marry. Malloy interviewed men from ages 17 to 70 who were about to marry ; all admitted they felt increasingly out of place in the bars, pool halls and dance clubs that were once their favorite hangouts. He’s Financially Independent Tina Tessina, Ph.D., a California psychotherapist, explains, “Men do have a biological clock, but their timing is different from women. Most men’s priorities tend to be focused on winning financial security before having a family. If he’s still struggling to pay his bills, he’s not going to want to add the burden of supporting a wife.” To take it further, the man you’re looking for is a grown-up – someone who can be counted on. He’s able to commit to a job, not to mention family and friends. On the romantic front, even if he’s not r
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